Your determination and persistence are legendary.
You’ve never met a goal you couldn’t crush. Whether it’s gunning for that big promotion or training for a half marathon, once you set your mind to something you study hard, work hard, train hard, and push hard to get it.
So when you decided it was time to have a baby, you naturally went all in: tracking your cycle meticulously, eating all the right foods, sacrificing your caffeine and alcohol, researching and reading everything you could get your hands on, practically driving yourself nuts with the perfection of it all. But it hasn't worked.
Here at Lily & Bee Fertility, I take women who are used to pushing hard and teach them how to pull back—how to take their foot off the accelerator so their bodies can relax and do what they’re meant to do!
Next destination: baby!
I spent 6 years desperately hoping to see those two pink lines...
...but it didn't happen until I figured out I needed to let go in order to let my baby in.
"What am I doing wrong?"
For 6 years that was the big question. I was a personal trainer and the picture of good health–in great shape, eating “clean,” and definitely used to setting a goal and then achieving it. I spent hours on end researching on the internet, I read books, I tried tons of fertility diets, supplements, and even disgusting shakes. I cried buckets of tears, spent a small fortune on pregnancy tests, and suggested on more than one occasion that my husband leave me (yikes)!
But nothing worked until I finally realized how hard I was pushing, how much tension and stress I’d built up, and how much pressure I was putting on myself.
Once I figured out how to open that release valve…well, that’s when the magic finally happened.
And that’s what I want for you, too!
Your body isn't broken. It just needs a little bit of TLC!
Here are the paths you can follow—
let's figure out which one makes sense for you:
The Power Hour
You've got one specific thing you'd like to tackle? Or maybe you're not even sure this is for you!
Let's do an hour together!
The Quick Boost
Want some extra support for a cycle of IUI or IVF? Need help navigating a rough patch?
Let's take a few sessions and get it done!
The Fresh Start
Wish you could go back and do some things differently? Who says you can't?!
Let's spend a few months and make it happen!
What people are saying:
"After six years on my fertility journey, Becky’s meditations and deep listening helped me trust my body and feel truly seen—she’s a rare and precious healer." —Briana W.
"I can't say enough positive things about Becky...She is kind, humorous, generous with her time and informative. I trusted her with very sensitive information and never felt judged by her. Can't recommend her enough!" —K
"She really helped recalibrate my mentality and taught me some coping mechanisms for fertility anxiety." —C. in the U.K.
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